silhouette of woman watching a storm from her windowAll of us want to learn how to reduce, prevent and cope with stress in healthy ways. It may feel that you cannot do anything about the daily stressors of life: bills, family responsibilities and demanding work commitments. Stress Management is how you cope and gain control with life’s stressors so that you relieve pressure and can feel back in control. How do you usually deal with problems? How do you manage your thoughts and emotions? Stress management involves changing the stressful situation when you can, changing your reaction when you can’t, taking care of yourself, and making time for rest and relaxation. The first step is to recognize the true sources of stress in your life.

Unhealthy ways of coping with stress

The coping strategies below reduces stress temporarily, but in the the long run, they end up causing more damage:

  • Avoiding the problemheterosexual couple sitting on bench, disagreeing
  • Taking out your anger on others (lashing out, angry outbursts and physical violence)
  • Sleeping too much
  • Binging on junk or comfort food
  • Procrastinating
  • Withdrawing from friends, family and activities
  • Zoning out in front of the computer or T.V.
  • Using pills or drugs to relax
  • Drinking too much
  • Smoking

If you’re feeling like your life is at a standstill or even though you know what you need to do to get moving but you are mot motivated to do it, or you may be feeling guilty because of the way you have been treating your loved ones or even yourself, then contact me so I can help you identify the core issues that keep you locked down and unmotivated. We will work on a plan, together, so you can feel happier, lighter and more productive in your life and relationships. I provide you through online biblical therapy, opportunities so that you will be well-versed in God’s Word, know how to respond biblically and maintain your focus on glorifying God in the process for your own good.